鷹之道 賽。蟒剛麼瑞

Just finished a very brief book by SyMontgomery.  It's very different from her other writings, because she gave up the activity of falconry.    The main reason for giving up is due to the fact that hunting is not in her blood, to be specific, killing is not in her makeup.  She is still awed by the beauty and wildness of raptors.  I don't think anybody wouldn't be awed by it.  Though I do remember from KonradLarenz's writing, he does not think raptors are smart.  Sy thought points out the instinct part of raptors as the essence of the bird, not truly it's intelligence.  And there're also many ways intelligence, Raptors way of intelligence is just very different from ours.  

I liked this book about its honesty and humility.  Because her choice at the end is very impressive, it shows humility really.  I'd imagine somewhere in her heart, a desire to complete falconry training must be strong.  But she knew herself, her circumstances, her relations, she turned it down.  She is not just speaking about being an animal lover, but really acts as one.  For I believe that by denying herself to train for 2 years with a raptor, she protected both a raptor she's going to handle and herself.  An over bloated promise, will make injury to both parties.  

Also, I am wondering if there are writing about falconry in 華夏大地.  What's their experience?  What's their language?  

Quote:

Our fellow animals teach us lessons about the delights of sameness and difference. They immerse us in wonder. They lead us to humility; they inspire us to reverence. They teach us the many facets of love.

Reminder: Slow to Anger. And moderation in Anger.

 Slow to Anger

Moderation in Anger.  

A rule against murder 讀後感，詩鈔

我剛讀完露易莎。媥尼的第四本葛傌煦警探系列小說。  題目是一條反對謀殺的規定。  我始終覺得這不是一個很嚴肅的偵探小說系列。  這個系列真正吸引我的地方是他創造的人物，都很可親，很可愛。  而且很多偵探小說裡的主角都是出生背景黑暗，但是這位葛傌煦警探則不是，其中的一個原因實在是因為作者當初創作的時候，希望把心目中的最完美的男人的特質用來塑造出這位警探。  

這本書在描寫家庭的互動上滿仔細，也滿生動的。  但是，有時候我覺得作者為了創造氣氛，在某些描述上變得有點誇張。  關於查案方面，我覺得這一部跟前三集相比，更弱。  這一本書的重點很顯然是希望讓讀者更深入了解葛傌煦警探的成長經過，而不是案情。  我覺得有點可惜。  但是故事裡有兩大段地方，讓我看得很喜歡。  因為這兩段寫的很實在，並不煽情。  可以說把這本書的重點給點得很到位。  

我喜歡這個系列還因為作者每次都有使用了不少的詩詞。  不知道為什麼這都讓我很高興。  我這次也不例外，把一首貫穿全書的詩抄錄下來。 

Oh! I have slipped the surly bonds of Earth

And danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings;

Sunward I’ve climbed, and joined the tumbling mirth

of sun-split clouds,—and done a hundred things

You have not dreamed of—wheeled and soared and swung

High in the sunlit silence. Hov’ring there,

I’ve chased the shouting wind along, and flung

My eager craft through footless halls of air….

Up, up the long, delirious, burning blue

I’ve topped the wind-swept heights with easy grace

Where never lark nor ever eagle flew—

And, while with silent lifting mind I’ve trod

The high untrespassed sanctity of space,

Put out my hand, and touched the face of God.

“High Flight,” September 3, 1941., John Gillespie Magee, Jr. (1922–41)

Magee was born in Shanghai, China, of missionary parents—an American father and an English mother—and spoke Chinese before English. He was educated at Rugby school in England and at Avon Old Farms School in Connecticut. He won a scholarship to Yale, but instead joined the Royal Canadian Air Force in late 1940, trained in Canada, and was sent to Britain. He flew in a Spitfire squadron and was killed on a routine training mission on December 11, 1941. The sonnet above was sent to his parents written on the back of a letter which said, “I am enclosing a verse I wrote the other day. It started at 30,000 feet, and was finished soon after I landed.” He also wrote of his course ending soon and of his then going on operations, and added, “I think we are very lucky as we shall just be in time for the autumn blitzes (which are certain to come).”

文章裡是介紹這位作者，年僅十九歲。  在二戰時，在英國上空做訓練飛行時發生意外，和另一架訓練機相撞斃命。  文章裡說他出生在中國上海，父母是傳道士。  他從小一開口講的是國語，後來才學英文。  之後又在英美兩國之間就學， 獲得耶魯大學獎學金，但是棄學從軍，進入英國皇家航空。  在他寫給父母的信中，他抄錄了這首詩，信裡提到當天飛機一飛上三萬英呎，他就開始有了詩的靈感，在降落後，一首詩(信裡用的詞彙是 ditty，短歌的意思)就完成了。    

a random record

 這是第三個星期二小瑋沒有來和媽媽研讀聖經了。  他在五月卅一日打電話來說他有心冠了。  媽媽很緊張，我記得我們第二天就拿點食物過去。  PQ  那時候還沒有染疫。  他來樓下拿了食物上去。  那個星期我們又拿了點東西過去，好像是一鍋雞湯，不對那是第一次拿的吧？  可是那個周末之後 PQ 也得了。  他兩沒有分房睡。  媽媽一直都在勸他們要分開睡。  可是你可以想像，住在公寓裡，是很困難的。  

我們聽說 PQ 感染了，我和媽媽也都立馬做了測驗。  各做兩次。  都沒有，不過原本說了要和胡熒阿姨去 Costco 後來也不去了。  

這兩個星期，小瑋不能來，也沒有見到他人。  上個星期六我把 Mei 的折疊腳踏車拿去小瑋家，是 PQ 下來拿的。  他大致上都已恢復，沒甚麼症狀了。  不過人看起來有點瘦。  當然還是沒有看到小瑋。  不過這兩個星期在電話上聽起來他人在逐漸好起來。  聲音雖然還是有痰， 但是愈來愈有精神。  昨天傍晚，媽媽看她打電話，打不到人，他在網上帶一個聖經研讀。  

這次，佩蘭阿姨，舅舅都有打電話給小瑋。  還不錯的哩。  媽媽也經常和小瑋聯絡。  雖說媽媽說自己總是說一些小瑋不愛聽的，例如應該要去拿針對心冠的藥，但是只要有打電話就好。  

只是個紀錄。  

詩鈔

 

宿石邑山中

唐代：韓翃

浮雲不共此山齊，山靄蒼蒼望轉迷。
曉月暫飛高樹裡，秋河隔在數峰西。

saw it at memorial hall library.  hung up in a frame on the wall.  

成長路錄音完成感想

 underwhelming.

The recording is so bad.  From narration, recording.  The only good thing is the source material.  But because of the bad recording.  Nobody in their right mind would finish listening even one clip.  

But that's fine, I am trying to comfort myself.  I already knew it when at the very beginning.  And I hope it  stayed that way.  

Underwhelming, a feeling I am perplexed.  Usually, I'd feel elated after I complete something, anything.  But not this time.  All I can feel is underwhelming.  Like nothing really happened.  I tried to look at the date when I started the project, it was 4/40/21, in the hope that the duration of he project would give me some satisfaction.  Although the quality of the result is not good, but I stuck to it till the end.  Of course, with my mom's push, faking interest, she already finished reading the book twice since I started the project.  

My initial goal is two folds.  For the outside world, I hope to preserve some very good literature online.  For myself, I wish to practice my speech this way, to preserve little bit of speaking ability.  Did any of these goals met, I ask myself.  For my speech, I am not sure, I think I will have to keep doing it because I don't speak to other people more than some surface conversation, if even that.  For the outside world, that's a lofty goal when no one will come and listen to it.  Although for the falu purposes, I rather have no people come listening.  

But even now I am typing the thoughts out, I am underwhelmed in a huge way.  I don't know why.  That's okay.  I guess in my heart, maybe I'd like to be very good at narrating the book.   However, this is basically my first recording for a real book.  Secondly, keep at it, nothing is good at first.  I can acknowledge that my potential for a good recording is very low.  But I am hoping I still have some way before reaching that low ceiling...  lol  

Animal sightings so far

 1. 

I was walking downtown.  I came to the Elm Square intersection.  Our town library is part of the intersection.  On top of it, there's a round pole.  It was twilight, the  traffic was quite heavy.  It was spring, the weather was quite nice.  There were people walking around.  What animal could I see in this heavy crowded area?  It was on top of that tip of the library dome.  A hawk was sitting on the tip, not moving at all.  But a crow, or raven was diving bombing him.  Again and again, the black bird came at him only 1 inch away.  The hawk was not moving at all.  It was an incredible sight.  I must watch for a few minutes then moved on.  A couple minutes later, I thought the crow left.  Then finally I saw the hawk flied away.  That left an impression on me.  The busy intersection, twilight, cars everywhere, eating eating, walking.  But hovering over them, was a struggle between 2 birds.  

2. 

Earlier this year, maybe march, I was awakened by the croak of turkeys.  I thought it was early for turkeys.  But then, what surprised me was I heard the something landing on the roof.  I turned my head and saw a strange sight.  A turkey flew to my roof, right outside of my window!  What a sight!  

3. 

I think it was a few week ago.  I was wakened by the croak of turkeys again.  The second time this year.  I wasn't impressed.  But just a little later, I heard a murder of crows or ravens crowing loudly nearby.  I immediately realized there's something wrong.  Crows must be witnessing something.  So I got up and looked out my window.  And sure enough, I saw a fox chasing after 2 turkeys.  I instantly took some pictures.  But they were of bad quality my camera don't have zoom.  After both turkeys and fox moved away, I ran outside in hope to see what would happen.  The turkeys were actually walking leisurely.  And the fox kept following them patiently.  The murder of 4 crows, fly along their paths, until they reach the elm street.  The fox saw me eventually, and I stayed a bit longer.  I stepped on the elm street, hoping to see how're the turkeys.  They still strode slowly along the elm.  The fox took off though, along with the crows.  

4. 

Crows made a nest in my pine trees at my backyard.  They were loud and very active.  It was about a couple weeks ago.   They were really loud, all 4 of them, but they were not flying around like usual.  They were all on the pine trees, did not leave.  I kept trying to see why, I thought there must be something wondered into my backyard.  But I saw nothing on the ground.  I went to bathroom and trying to poop.  Then only then, I saw something grey furs moving  along the trunk of the big pine trees.  A crow was crowing at it!!  I'd guess it was a raccoon.  But after that glimpse, I could not see it again!  The crows were still cawing though.  

5. 

A lot of roads in our town had a lot of construction all around.  So I changed my routine.  I switched to Rt. 125 bypass.  The route passed through a huge swamp, which was divided by Rt. 125.  It was unfortunate for the wild animals really.  Because I saw many dead animals along the route in the morning, the most stand out was a few dead bodies of beavers.  Very sad signs.  A road so very convenient for us, very dangerous for the rest of the animals.  And it divides the swamp, fractions the natural habitat.  

6.

Just this weekend, I went to horn pond with Aunt Grace's family.  I saw something interesting.  There was a spot for boating.   A group of Canadian geese swim towards that location.  But we were at that spot, so they held their advances and waited patiently for us leave.  Then, Roger and Becca spotted sth weird in the water.  A leaf floating with intention.  Then we realize it must be something aquatic animals like an otter.  The leaf floated towards the geese, then we saw a diving action.  A few second later, the geese was disturbed, and all of a sudden, all of them took fly, fled the water, except one goose.  He struggled some and swam alone away from the disturbed spot safely.  We never saw the otter itself though.  It was awesome.  

語言遊戲

 Hush!

With sudden gush

As from a fountain

Signs in yonder brush

The Hermit Thrush.  

--John B. Tabb

Saw the quote on YT video, which talks about Hermit Thrush.   The video showed how wonderful hermit Thrush's song is to our human ears.  And yet we human always have a hard time to locate the bird.  Because it's small, the color is ambiguous among its environment.  

The quote sounds like a fun exercise for the author, especially after I tracked down the whole poem.  I feel it is with this leisurely, playful way, showed how flexible this language can be.    

媽又摔跤了

 Mother had another fall today.  It's her fourth fall since last September.  This one she fell when she followed me to cross the street.  There's a road construction, the road is higher than the side walk, she must've watched me, did not notice the unevenness of the road.  Even though she had two walking stickers, her head had a huge bump, and her wrist injured as well.  It was so shocking, she could not walk.  I was trying to see if anyone can drive us.  I gestured to the cars drive by, but to no avail.  My mom finally said 911, I called and continued to wave at cars.  Finally, a car stopped, a young lady stopped but saw us without masks, she offered to call uber for us.  She even prepared to pay for the ride.  But the cop showed up and then so was ambulance.  We thanked the lady.  And the ambulance took mom to the Lawrence General Emergency.  Mom did not want to go.  But the bump on her head was really swelling and she was really shaken up.  I kind wanted her to go.  

When I got home, took her ID and Insurance, drove the emergency.  When I arrived, I instantly felt she's much calmer.  Dr, Timothy Chu was there consulting her.  Doctor said she seemed fine, without broken bones and very little chance of internal bleed.  He said there's no need for MRI.   He realized this is Mom's 4th falls in more than 6 months, he recommended in home Physical Therapy, which should call next week.  

Mom was really tired.  But she's so anxious.  She said she might need a NyQuil to help falling asleep.  I went to CVS, but saw ZZiquil.  Not sure, so I called my sister, who's having a covid bout.  For this reason, my mom did not want to tell her about the fall.  I told her everything, because I felt she kind needs to have a full picture to make a correct recommendation.  My sis was kind shocked too.  But know the full story, she recommended Tylenol PM, which is pain relief with sleeping aid.  I went home, told my mom I talked to the CVS consultation and Tylenol PM was the result.  

The reason Mom went to that road was because I forgot to bring aunt Grace's key.  Aunt Grace needed somebody to watch her apartment for a while.  I did not know when would she be home.  So I called mom to see if she could get key to me.  

I remember one of the fall was in the hospital.  I went with her that day, but stayed at waiting area.  I heard her yell, but did not expect her fell.  

I remember one of the fall was when she slept very little one night, she still wanted to exercise.  So she jogged around the house.  When I heard the sound, I came down stairs to jog with her while trying to make her laugh.  Then she fell right in front of me.  Her face hit the wall, her wrist was hurt trying to break the fall.  And her knee was in pain too.  

I remember one of the fall was when she trying to do something about her clothes that day.  She was standing right next to the kitchen counter, did not move her feet, only just turned her head.  Then she fell right in front of me, she bumped her ribs against the counter.  Nothing broke, we think.  But the pain last quite some times.  

This felt like a trend.  I really don't know what to do.  

It seems like...

 My lower back suddenly gave out last Wednesday.  From then on, I took 2 sick days.  I was lying down most of the weekends.  I had similar incidents before.  But not as bad as this one.  And a week or two ago, I was severely bloated, which is a rare event for me.  I wonder if those two incidents are related.  

My lower back pain this time actually feels like Sciatica pain.  Because it goes from my lower left side all the way to my left feet.  I can even feel the path of transmission, sometimes, it's tingling, sometimes it's heat.  It's also is subsided a little bit, very little bit.  I was on Jury Duty today, I was able to sit in the court waiting for judge's action, fortunately, the defendant pleaded guilty.  We were led go at 11:30.  I can move out of sitting position without too much pain, unlike what I encountered over the weekend.  

I wonder if it's sciatica, would be healed.  I wonder if it's not healed, what would I do?  My uncle has sciatica for 5 years now.  I was thinking about how he worked all his life, after retirement, he has difficulty moving around.  But suddenly, I am in the same situation.  I really have to make a decision, trying to learn and plan how I want to the rest of my life?!!  

有時候突然想吃。。。

 有時候會突然有一種感覺在腦袋裡升起來，可能是視覺，又或者是味覺，咦，我想吃。。。  

大概是三個多月以前，不知道為什麼突然很想吃果醬，而且是藍莓醬。  總是想到那幅圖畫， 藍莓醬塗在麵包上的樣子。  自從三年前，媽媽發現賴宇凡，介紹給我妹後，我妹積極研究碳水化合物，也就是含糖的食物的壞處後。  我和媽媽也大大減少碳水物的進食。  所以這個藍莓醬的慾望，雖在腦海裡醞釀，我卻遲遲不肯嘗試。  這樣過了一陣子後，這慾望又進化了，不知道為什麼一個多月前，突然在腦袋裡出現了一種奇怪的味覺。  這是一種奇特的組合，之前藍莓醬先有了視覺而後才有味覺，現在卻突然感覺乾羊酪拌藍莓醬，塗在麵包上，那味道似乎在我的舌尖上擴散開來，不是爆炸的感覺，而是暖暖的，象被包容在裡面的一樣！  

終於我和媽媽去了一趟 Costco，我們替胡熒阿姨買了 Ciabatta bread ，本來我都是買牛角麵包，但這次我們也買了一包 Ciabatta。  我跟媽媽說，我已經想了很久的一個吃法， ciabatta 是種很適合這種吃法的麵包。  於是我又備齊了乾羊酪和藍莓醬，藍莓醬還是在 Whole Food 買的。  我早餐的時候終於第一次吃到了我腦袋想像很久的味道。  想像畢竟是想像，還是要和現實相比較才能證實到底是不是那個味。  令人慶幸的是，那味道實在和自己想得很像，甚至還要更好。  後來的一個多月裡，經常這樣搭配來吃，還去買了比較好的乾羊酪。  媽媽也開始吃了，他也說很好吃。  

到最後我們終於介紹給我妹吃。  他和我妹夫聽到的時候都覺得不可思議。  他們認為乾羊酪實在不適合他們的口味。  之後，我妹嘗過一小口，他的感覺就是乾羊酪帶點霉味，實在吃不下去。  這也是現實，並不是我喜歡的東西別人也喜歡。  我今天來寫這事情是因為，我今天晚飯把剩下的乾羊酪配著柳丁吃光了。  沒有麵包，仍然是很好吃。  我大概表情太特殊，我媽說她也滿喜歡，但畢竟沒有我那麼喜歡。  是的，海邊有逐臭之夫，我家也有。  特別的是，這個搭配是在腦袋裡醞釀了好久，而想像和現實相合的確是快事。  

後記： 我想想，這種乾乳酪配水果的吃法在歐洲人是常事。  我以前也覺得好怪。  但是， 不知道是甚麼理由，這次卻好像魚水交歡一樣。  我在腦袋裡醞釀藍莓醬時，就一直想到乾乳酪配水果，真的不知怎麼想到乾羊酪的？  

詩鈔

 Sonnet 19:  When I consider how my light is spent

by John Hamilton    

When I consider how my light is spent,

Ere half my days, in this dark world and wide,

And that one Talent which is death to hide

Lodged with me useless, though my soul more bent

To serve therewith my Maker, and present

My true account, lest he returning chide;

"Doth God exact day-labor, light denied?"

I fondly ask.  But patience, to prevent 

That murmur, soon replies, "God doth not need

Either man's work or his own gifts; who best

Bear his mild yoke, they serve him best.  His state

Is Kingly.  Thousands at his bidding speed

And post o'er Land and Ocean without rest:

They also serve who only stand and wait."  

Was organizing some files on Friday, I saw I jotted this poem on a big envelope a few years back.  I was surprised I had not yet put this poem on this blog.  :p  

What caught my eyes were the phrase, "God doth not need either man's work or his own gift..."  And I guess the last sentence, "They also serve who only stand and wait"  Waiting patiently and in readiness(stand), God is merciful.  

Move, man, just don't be still

 I was in the yard worked for 20 minutes.  After that I came, did my balance sheet.  And now, been browsing for more than 40 minutes.  5 minutes ago, I kept reminded myself.  If I have nothing to do online, then I should get off.  And yet, I kind don't want to.  So I searched my brain for anything ahead planned.  No.  Anything interesting to do?  No.  Anyone I want to contact.  Kind want to call Roger so I could go to his house and watch 2 highly anticipated games.  But maybe not want to call.  Feel out of blue by calling him, since I don't contact with anyone.  I was planning to go to herring run today but instead went with my sis yesterday afternoon.  I did a bit exercise this morning.  very little, still something though.  I think I will do some for now.  Just to keep myself moving.  I feel a bit blue right now, though the weather is so nice out.  

Belfastafterthought

 Finished watching the movie and really liked it.  

I really like the black and white used in the movie.  Since the movie is from director's memory.  The black and white and millions of grey served the purpose well.  And it's such a simple setting, the lights and darkness somehow amplified in this mode of shooting.  I loved that one shot with grandpa and Buddy doing long division by the window.  But there were many others.  

JudyDench and CiaranHinds were amazing.  I loved them both already.  But their chemistry here was just beautiful.  Don't know why but almost every scene of them together, I could feel a long history between them.  Both of them are old now, so maybe acting as old couple aren't that difficult.   When I was watching a scene with Judy and Buddy on a bus, I was completely overtaken by Judy's performance.  It's such a shrewd performance, which must come from a very keen observation of people around her, and possibly herself.  She did not have much line in the scene, but with a few snicker or a chortle, which convey her age, and temperament so vividly.  Just wonderful.  

There're so many conversations between characters that are memorable.  The young actor was great at portraying at his own age.  It sounds so weird that old actors great at portraying elderly, and young for kids.  But the writing here somehow catches that sense of  祖輩和孫子。  I think here also showed Director's ability to communicate with actors.  When I watched the second time with my mom and my sister, I found how simple the movie really is.  The setup of each scenes is almost like a stage play.  What I feel as an audience really comes from the strength of the conversation between the characters, husband and wife(through 2 generations), friends, neighbors, fathers(through 3 generations), cousins.  The flavor come from words in this movie.  

There are some many heart felt laughter from this movie.  I highly recommended.  

The scene where pa said to ma, you raised these kids by yourself, not me.  somehow reminded me of my mom telling me almost the same thing her dad used to tell her that her ma raised her, not by her pa.  But in that context, i felt my grand pa meant that my mom's siblings' way of doing things is essentially from their mother, which might be different from grand pa's way.  the movie though I think was meant as a praise, not an assessment.  Then when I saw buddy asking his pa about grand pa helping him, I felt the impact of those words from previous scene.  Then I thought of all the parents who had to leave their kids and work from afar to provide.  A very universal scene, really.  

The way movie showed the world through child's eye also reminded me of JOJORabbit.  But JOJORabbit has more exaggeration and cartoony approach.  I liked Ken's movie better.  

Quote:

"When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child, but then I became a man and I put away childish things...

So do not say in grief that you are sorry he is gone. 

Rather say in thanfulness you are grateful he was here..."

opsodi iladk i odp paodp kkk e k

 今天早上我在 YT 上看到一個影片，裡面提到一九七三年的石油危機時，那個人剛從大學畢業，拿到了第一份薪水，但因為通膨廿%，以為可以用半年的薪水只用了一個月。  我就問媽媽他有無碰過同樣的事情。  他說他那時根本不知道有石油危機。  而且都是很省的過日子，哪裡有啥困難。  接著就說了一些以前的事情。

他是民國五十九年大學畢業。  畢業後他考進國中老師訓練班，那時國教九年剛開始不久，滿需要老師的，他和虞珍阿姨都去考了。  在他確定分發到宜蘭頭城去當國中老師時，媽媽看到了立法院招考記錄員。  媽說她在很輕鬆的情況下去考的，似乎都沒有啥準備，想想只是紀錄嘛。  他說他去考場的那一天，不知道為啥大家都在埋頭看報紙。  後還他才知道他們看的是當時的公報，公報的內容就是當時立法院紀錄員的會議紀錄。  但是媽媽一點都沒有準備，考試的內容是一篇聽寫和一篇作文。  當時考試沒有上。  媽媽也無所謂。  反正他已經有地方去了。  

媽媽去頭城教書的故事是我們從小聽到大的。  那是他最高興一段往事。  他隻身前往頭城，住在老師宿舍裡，那是他人生頭一次完全獨立，沒有外婆的羈絆，外公的管教，弟妹也都很遙遠。  於是她全身投入當時的環境中，從他自己的口中可以知道他非常享受這樣的生活。  一開始教國一的國文，非常受學生的愛戴。  不過他說自己第一堂課的時候，站在講台後面，兩條腿都在發抖。  漸漸的，其他的老師在知道媽媽滿會教國文後，也請他代課，尤其是國文文法課。  到了第二年，連校長都知道了，竟然請媽媽去教國三的學生。  他說國三的學生個個高頭大馬，母親那麼矮小，他說一開始也有點困難，但是母親說他就是不會罵人，總是很有耐心的教導。  而且他說當時的課文都沒有變，他要學生背書，他自己就先琅琅上口，學生都很服他。  

媽媽在頭城待了三年，直到外公給他安排到交通部運輸計劃委員會去。  他自己很想要給班上的同學一些禮物，但是自己只是一個窮教員，哪有錢花呢。  後來他在台北的家中找到一些外公剩下的筆，也不知是原子筆還是鋼筆，外公也是省得要命，外殼都滿新的。  於是媽媽去重慶南路的文具行買了筆芯，然後把他當作畢業禮物送給一些他很喜歡的學生。  媽說這些學生都好高興，又回送了一堆的他們自己家裡出產的農作物，捕魚或自己曬的蝦米做回禮。  媽媽自己吃不完，都帶回家給外婆了。  因為提到通膨，媽媽說他在頭城的同事裡，一個教師攜家帶子，一家四口都住在宿舍裡，他們也常常會去摘採野菜，媽說就像現在住在澎湖的姊妹那樣，也會到海邊去採貝殼。  這個教師常常會和媽媽這些比較年輕的老師說哪裡哪裡有可以摘採的野菜和貝殼。  媽媽說在很久以後他才聽說當時有另一個年輕的男教師在追他，可是他一點都不知道。  聽說那位男同事後來還是娶了一位同校的老師。  他說要是他那時在頭城結婚了，那人生真的和現在大不一樣。

媽說他的第一份薪水，兩千多元是給了外婆。  但是，在他的記憶裡，外婆並沒有特別高興。  外婆在媽媽懷我的時候，到了美國一趟，好像在舅舅家住了一個月。  回到台灣的時候，還特別跟葉婆婆說舅舅拿給外婆看自己在美國的第一份薪水，似乎外婆那時笑得合不攏嘴。  但是，媽媽說，葉婆婆跟外婆說，那麼高興，看看到時你能用到一個子兒嗎?！  (我的印象可能有誤。)  

媽媽在運輸委員會做的很不開心，在此期間常常往返台灣和日本之間。  甚至有想要在日本找工作的機會。  但是都沒有成功。  後來在家裡來了一封意外的信。  竟是立法院紀錄員的通知單。  四五年前的那一次考試，那是幾千人的考試裡面選出四人。  媽媽當時不是前四名，卻是第五名。  這時，前四名中的一位考上了高考，要走了。  於是立法院就來函問媽媽是否願意替補。  媽媽剛從日本找工作失敗回來，他當然欣然同意。  從此在立法院待了十五年左右。  他說他在考試時，聽寫中漏了一段，他知道漏掉了那一段是逼不出來的，當機立斷，繼續往下紀錄。  後來，他進立法院後，聽說他的聽寫不是太好，但是他的作文卻是當時考試的第一名，甚至比林梅貽還好。  他說那個題目多半是他自己喜歡寫的那一種，慷慨激昂，正面向上的那一種。  

這裡還得提到一位叫郭琛的立法院同事。  我記得這個名字，可是印象裡有點淡。  因為媽媽和秦金台阿姨見面時往往會問問這位郭琛阿姨。  今天提起他，媽媽說那時郭琛出了一車禍。  也就是因為這場車禍，郭琛找到了爸爸。  媽媽自己也因為頻尿的問題，透過郭琛，媽媽認識了爸爸。  而秦金台阿姨是郭琛的同學，也是由郭琛阿姨認識小于叔叔的。  很有趣，一場車禍， 兩場婚姻。  這個立法院的經歷幾乎可以自己獨立成為一篇。  但是我這裡只是簡短的紀錄。  也就，將就將就。  

媽媽就在立法院時期結婚，搬家，生子，喪母。  這結婚一事，對媽媽來說是滿苦痛的。  媽媽和爸爸決定結婚後，媽媽要把爸爸的照片寄給外公外婆。  可是爸爸當時實在沒有很多照片。  唯一能找到的一張照片，是一個大光頭照，爸爸是民國十七還是十八年次的，照片可能也滿老相。  寄到日本後，外婆乘風似的趕回來阻止。  這過程是很激烈的。  媽說外婆連飢不擇食的話都說出來，甚至還因此打了母親一生中唯一一記耳光。  當時外公外婆都住在日本，佩蘭阿姨舅舅都在美國， 媽媽當時把南昌街的房子租了一間房間出去。  外婆連在媽媽的室友面前都不理，暢談無阻，反正是想盡了辦法要阻止這場婚姻。  那位室友在目睹這樣的情形還和自己的媽媽說，最後趕快搬走了。  那位室友的母親還和媽媽說，從來沒看過外婆這樣的老媽。  

媽媽說他當時從四十五公斤瘦到了四十一公斤。  甚至都想著要自殺了。  但是他想到爸爸，認為這樣是不行的。  如果他真的自殺，那人家會怎麼說爸爸呢？  結婚後，母親的壓力也沒斷過。  他甚至晚上睡覺都都會冷汗直冒，可能還有夜驚。  甚至爸爸都有說過早知媽媽這個樣，就不敢娶他了。  外婆在我出生後堅持要回來，但是媽媽說他也沒有幫上忙。  而爸爸呢，媽媽是很佩服的。  爸爸每天一進門就很親熱地喊著外婆， 媽媽，媽媽，但是媽媽說外婆是鐵了心腸，理都不理。  這點我是完全相信的，爸爸常常對我說的，要會喊人，嘴要甜。  很可惜，我卻是離這個教誨愈來愈遠了。  

摘錄: Notes on a Touch of Zen by King Hu

 "In my student day, Liaozhai was one of my favorite books; its bizarre tales of ghosts and fox spirits held me spellbound for days on end.  Indirectly, the book also helped me to acquire an abundance of literary images and unusual expressions. "

"Ever since I started making films, I have wanted to adapt one of the Liaozhai tales for the screen.  Two difficulties had caused me to hesitate: most of the stories have too simple a plot to satisfy the requirement of a film script; and their themes are heavily didactic...and generally lacking a meaningful message." 

把這段抄錄起來，因為這滿重要的。  

俠女再次觀後感

 不知道是甚麼原因， 去年又看了一次原版的龍門客棧。  感想還是和第一次無大不同。  最近也不知怎地，又想起了俠女，剛好查到圖書館有，我又借了一次。  沒想到這次比第一次喜歡。  這次我更注意到了導演的取景，有許多地方真的是很像古代的畫一樣！   亦詩亦畫！  

但更不一樣的地方是我更了解整個故事的架構，人物的關係。  我之前實在不怎麼喜歡那個大和尚。  覺得完全是無俚頭。  但這第二次看完後， 我比較能欣賞有關這個大和尚的情節。  大一次看的時候，覺得和尚完全是多餘。  我也不知道為啥這一次看就比較不一樣。  

這齣戲的竹林過場的確是非常緊湊。  打破我之前的印象， 也讓我立刻想到李安的臥虎和張藝謀的十面。  但老實說，俠女的竹林打鬥遠比李和張的要好太多。  光影， 雲煙和竹綠的交相輝映所帶出的氣氛，而且那剪輯所帶出的緊湊竟然比現代的特效還要刺激！  

這次也是我和母親一起看，他竟然滿喜歡的。  

Walking in the woods

 最近我常常在林子裡走了三次。  現在還是冬末春初，林子裡到處都是冬天景象，只是沒有雪。  林子的地上全是枯葉，有些樹上枯葉仍頑強的粘著。  風從去年開始，愈來愈大。  風吹過去的時候，枯葉互相顫抖，打在枯枯的樹枝上的聲音很是奇特。  粗粗糙糙，又有種奇特的節奏。  第一次去樹林的時候，似乎總是有腳步聲在地上的枯葉上走。  我回頭看，卻總是沒有人。  實在奇怪。  我走在一個丘脊上，轉了一彎，我回頭一看，居然看到丘陵朝西的一面，全是紅褐色的枯葉。  可是葉子上，葉子下，全是旅鶇(American Robin)。  簡直就是一大片的旅鶇，鬆鬆散散的在枯葉間找尋食物。  我看過一大群的旅鶇在人家草地上，很多時候，他們都抬起頭，盯著我。  這裡，這些鳥都不理我，仍低著頭找食物。  地上仍像是人走過枯葉的聲音。  真是有趣極了。  

石頭和鐵匠

WS slapped CR on Oscars.  That was the news these days.  But what is the best movie?  Who knows.  Probably only 10 people watched it.   These days, movie awards meant less and less.  

But what's interesting was how WS slapping CR was discussed on undisputet.  SB and SS, SS criticized hard on WS, but SB took the exact opposite stand.  This reminded me of a funny skid by a pair of legendary Chinese xiang sheng actors from Taiwan.  

In the skid, they were discussing how to stop a couple fighting by neighbors.  

One said, well, it depends.  

The other one said, depends on what? 

One said, it depends on the genders of the neighbors.  

The other one asked, how do genders make the difference?  

One said, well, if the neighbor was a guy, he should stand up for the husband.  If the neighbor is a gal, then vice versa.  

The other one said, how does it play out?  

One said, well, for example, if the neighbor is Mr. Wang, when he heard the fight, he came down stairs.  After he heard the argument from both sides, he stand up for the husband.  Then he would invite the husband away, in order  to give space to both the husband and wife.  

The other one said, ok, it's sound reasonable.  But I don't see why Mr. Wang can't side with the wife.  

One said, well, for example, if Mr. Wang stand up with the wife, and said, let's go get a coffee, forget about your husband!  How does that sound like?  

The other ones said, Oh, I see...  

I think the example is kind weird now that I am writing it.  I don't think it related well for the incident.  I guess not every thing happened in my mind does not draw reasonable comparison, even though it was at first.  

I do give my hat to CR.  I don't really listen to many of the standup comedians.  I always feel many of the jokes are too graphic and personal.  But CR's reaction and action post awards is first class personified.    My respect.  

媽媽的回憶： 爸爸第一次發病及其他

 今天是烏森換時間的時候， 他們叫這一天做 The end of Daylight Saving.  所以我們的時鐘要往前調一個小時， 本來應該是晚上八點的，就要調成是九點。  這好像是一個比較老的歐洲一些地方的習俗。  中午時， 我妹和妹夫帶了一堆火鍋料來家裡吃，母親提到爸爸第一次發病，說自己很幸運，爸爸沒有因此就走了。  他說要是爸爸那時走了，所有旁邊的人都會說媽媽剋夫。  我妹有點不信。  他說這甚麼時代了，還有人相信這個。  我說是有可能的，就算嘴裡不說，心裡也會想。  媽媽說是啊，而且不管自己信不信這一套，怕的還是。。。象那一個電影明星說的甚麼來著。  我說，人言可畏啊。  媽說對啊，阮玲玉那部電影裡說的嘛。  之後，吃完火鍋，我們就開始唱卡拉 OK，用我妹夫設計的軟體。  媽媽精神不是很好，但他還是在客廳躺椅上聽我們唱。  

晚上他們回去，我們也準備睡了，因為換時間的關係，家中的很多鐘都已調過了。  所以看上去是九點鐘，實際上大家的身體還是感覺的是八點鐘。  我半倚在床上看手機，已上床的媽媽打電話給我，說今天提到了爸爸第一次發病的事情，他有點睡不著。  叫我下樓去把這事和我說說，希望可以幫助入眠。  我就去聽他講故事了。  

那是在我妹剛出生沒多久，大概過了一兩個月，可能剛過了農曆新年。  我爸爸身體狀況不很好，這情況可能有一陣子了，因此，媽媽要給老爸補一補，他記得在那期間常常給老爸煮雞湯麵吃。  還都是特地去買的童子雞。 買了一冰箱的童子雞。 (我想，那時剛好新年前後，一般人在那時也吃得比較甜。)  但是老爸的身體並沒有好起來，根據老媽的回憶，老爸的肉好像一片一片被刮掉。  媽媽記得當時是冬天，老爸全身發熱，無法睡在床墊較厚的床上， 都是在地上打地鋪睡地上。  (我說，我記得在羅斯福路五段景美的房子裡，地板 都是磚塊，很冷的！  媽媽說是的。)  

*附加：  媽媽剛剛上來跟我說，這事情其實應該發生在夏天。  因為他記得是爸爸吃過紅豆湯後發生的。  在台灣吃紅豆湯都是吃又甜又冰的。  我本來是想把文章稍微修改一下。  但是，現在決定只加註一條。  畢竟記憶一上總是會有錯誤。  

爸爸既然每下愈況，媽媽就很操心，想要帶他去大醫院檢查。  可是爸爸自己是針灸醫生，又很會開方，根本不願意去。  於是媽媽就去找了大嫂來勸。  爸爸才勉強在大嫂的陪同下去了三軍總醫院做個檢查。  很幸運的是當時看診的是趙彬宇醫生。  他就問問老爸日常的生活起居，媽媽回憶當時的情況，趙彬宇醫生問老爸睡覺睡得好不好，我媽說一點都不好，還常夜尿，可是大嫂在旁邊說我老爸睡的好極了。  趙彬宇醫生很幽默的問，倒底誰是我老爸的太太。  他問完了問題後，推測有可能是糖尿病。  老爸當天就去抽了血去做化驗。  

當時這種檢查報告都要三四天後才會出來。  三四天後， 母親帶著老爸，這一次沒有大嫂陪同，去三軍總醫院去看檢查報告。  媽說老爸當時人已經是非常不舒服了。  他倆在等候室等報告時，等了一陣子都沒有人來。 爸爸坐不住了，他人不好到連坐都很難過，他說他一定要回家去。  所以媽媽就帶著老爸去。  到了家，母親去找了我乾媽的爸爸來陪老爸，他倆是很熟的朋友。  之後媽媽說他自己又坐車回三軍總醫院，他一定要看到報告。  結果他才剛踏進醫院的大門，就聽到廣播大聲的在問 "請莊耿輝的家屬趕快去櫃檯 (應該不是叫櫃台，可是我現在忘了名稱是啥了！) 。"   廣播不停的報，媽媽三腳兩步的跑過去， 護士說，你先生血糖值有970，情況非常危險，趙彬宇醫生要和你談談。"   趙彬宇醫生見到媽媽，馬上說， 你先生非常危險，一定要馬上住院。  你要在 三軍總醫院還是要在中心診所？  媽媽去年送外婆進中心診所，知道中心診所比較多單人病房，而且伙食也較好，他當機立斷的說要去中心診所。  趙彬宇醫生說，好，我現在就去和中心診所說你們立刻要一間單人病房，你現在趕快去接你先生。  

媽媽說他當時在三軍總醫院攔了一輛計程車，趕回景美的家裡，到家時，和計程車司機說，麻煩你等等，我還要進去接我先生到中心診所。  可是老爸那時已經走不動了，媽媽去求那個司機來幫忙扶著老爸。  媽說自己遇到好人，那個司機一看到老爸嚇了一跳，一把就抱著老爸安置在車裡，趕快開往中心診所。  媽媽帶著老爸到了中心診所，趙彬宇醫生早已給他們安排好病房。  聽媽媽說，當時那個病房竟擠了十幾二十個年輕醫生，都是趙彬宇醫生的學生，趙彬宇醫生也在下午一點左右趕到，媽媽說不知道他到底有沒有吃午飯。  大家七手八腳要給老爸抽血。  那個抽血的地點是大腿內側的大靜脈。  老爸一聽，說那還得了，針扎進去還有命嗎，死也不肯。  媽說怎麼勸也不行，趕忙去打電話找救兵。  打了大嫂和大哥，不在家；又打了小于叔叔，幸好秦金台阿姨在家，小于叔叔那時在高雄。  金台阿姨趕忙過來，他左一句莊師兄，右一句莊師兄，終於爸爸讓步了。    但這樣緊張讓爸爸也累的連最後的力氣都用盡了，整個人昏過去。  他們有趕緊他送到加護病房。  媽媽說那一次，在加護病房裡至少待了一個星期多，天天拿紅單子，意思就是血糖超高，有生命危險，請親人有心理準備。  另外，在普痛病房有待了一個多月。  我說我也看過老爸被王昌國叔叔抬到計程車去，我就是那一次看到紅單子的。  媽說那是後來的一次。  (我記得那次也是血糖值高到九百多。)  

但是這次，媽媽說他選擇中心診所是因為他知道三軍總醫院的病房都是多人一間，給老兵住的嘛。  媽說他為什麼會知道，是因為以前外婆也住過三軍總醫院的。  我說外婆怎麼會住三軍總醫院，他又不是軍人。  媽媽說因為他的小學同學有一陣子在三軍總醫院做護士，外婆需要住院的時候，媽媽就去找這位小珍阿姨。  所以也就順道住進三軍總醫院了。  媽媽在講述這個故事的時候，不斷提到趙彬宇醫生，心裡實在是充滿感謝。  他說要不是遇到這個醫生，爸爸是鐵定過不了那一關的。  爸爸在中心診所的時候，前去探病的人絡繹不絕。  趙醫生很驚訝，問媽媽說爸爸是做甚麼的。  媽媽說是做針灸醫生的。  聽母親說趙彬宇醫生和老爸也很聊得來。  後來爸爸在門診的時候也都是看趙彬宇醫師，老爸和母親說過，這位趙醫生的肺臟不好。  媽媽說趙醫生後來是死於肺癌。  這一篇文章我其實已經想寫很久了。  可是一直苦於找不到有關趙彬宇醫生的資料。  今天找一找，稍微有一點眉目。  我把他的履歷寫在這裡也算紀念這位醫生。  (來源是榮民總醫院)。  我還有找到一本趙醫師夫人寫的紀念書。  然後我也在另一本書裡，提到趙彬宇醫師也是給蔣經國小蔣總統看糖尿病的主治大夫之一。  

專長

新陳代謝及糖尿病治療

學歷

軍醫學校西安醫一分校46期

榮譽職

中華民國糖尿病學會常務理事

曾任

國防醫學院醫學系副教授
本院病理檢驗部中央檢驗科主任

到任年月

1967年02月

出生年

1925

我細思當時的情況，對媽媽而言真的是很恐怖的。  民國七十年初，一月，他母親去世。  爸爸發病時，是民國七十一年初，在我妹出生大概一兩個月後，當時如果爸爸真的走了。  母親一年前才喪母，一年後又喪夫，再加上兩個娃。  我相信真的會有很多親戚朋友說他命剋！  爸爸那時沒有走，他們畢竟結縭十四載。  真可說是幸運。  

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把文章寄給我妹，他也提到爸爸第二次住院， 他的回憶。  我也附在這裡。  鐵板燒我是不記得了。  其他大都類似。  不過我記得只有王昌國叔叔把爸爸帶上車。  媽說那年投資公司倒閉，爸爸雖然一句話都沒表示，但是壓力很顯然是非常巨大的。  媽說那年暑假他帶著我和妹妹和大嫂一起去了日本一趟。  他認為他不應該去的。  如果他沒去，他很有可能會跟著乾媽趕快把錢提出來。  但是，爸爸不大會做這些事。  

｢寫得真好。敘述式很流暢，自然。但是這樣的經歷真是太焦慮了。王昌國叔叔那次我記得，印象很深。也是給兩三個朋友抬出去的。我們倆在門口。爸爸還對我們笑笑的說馬上回來。兩眼都紅的。之後媽媽安排我們跟王昌國叔叔的太太去他們家。他們香香姊姊和他哥哥都在。陪我們，讓我們放鬆。很晚媽媽才來接我們。那次爸爸住院也很久。我記得每次去看他，吃得都很好。中心診所的地點熱鬧，我們那時候去吃了好多次鐵板燒。  那一次我三年級。｣