Sunday, March 15, 2020

Quote from Embers

“... deep inside you was a frantic longing to be something or someone other than you are. It is the greatest scourge a man can suffer, and the most painful. Life becomes bearable only when one has come to terms with who one is, both in one's own eyes and in the eyes of the world. We all of us must come to terms with what and who we are, and recognize that this wisdom is not going to earn us any praise, that life is not going to pin a medal on us for recognizing and enduring our own vanity or egoism or baldness or our pot-belly. No, the secret is that there's no reward and we have to endure our characters and our natures as best we can, because no amount of experience or insight is going to rectify our deficiencies, our self-regard, or our cupidity. We have to learn that our desires do not find any real echo in the world. We have to accept that the people we love do not love us, or not in the way we hope. We have to accept betrayal and disloyalty, and hardest of all, that someone is finer than we are in character or intelligence.”

― Sándor Márai, Embers


This quote stays with me since I finished the book.  Some quotes is like a spark in the dark.  I don't  remember too much about everything else, but those sparks.  Sometimes I wonder if these quotes echoed in my mind, do those quotes described me or I might also had similar thoughts flashed through my mind before.  



“We have done everything within the scope of modern medicine.' Those are just words. They apparently did everything within their erratic knowledge and the limits of their vanity. ”
― Sándor Márai, Embers


“Whoever refuses to accept a part wants the whole, wants everything.”
― Sándor Márai, Embers


“Then I understood that a survivor has no right to bring a complaint. Whoever survives has won his case, he has no right and no cause to bring charges; he has emerged the stronger, the more cunning, the more obstinate, from the struggle.”
― Sándor Márai, Embers



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